Dear
Readers,
The
Preakness is upon us, but not quite. I'll be taking a look at the entries
once the official draw is over and the post positions of all the participants are assigned.
Meanwhile, I was thrilled to find Mary
Simon, of the Daily Racing Form, had read my book and written a review which was
posted earlier today.
Writing, particularly a memoir, is
an isolating process. While delving back into memories, depending on the
circumstances, the chronicler can find themselves caught up on a bumpy and
emotional adventure. Recollections can bring with them a broad spectrum of
emotions. Tears of joy, or wonder and even regret flow more easily with each
page that is written.
As the tears pass and the wonder
builds, there is a cathartic metamorphosis that takes the writer to the place
where they realize and appreciate, how blessed they were to have lived through the
experience.
For one-hundred days after my sister’s
bone marrow transplant, I was her primary care giver as she struggled to live. It
was both heartbreaking and stressful. Only years after her death did I realize
how blessed I’d been to have those days with her.
One-hundred days, just her and me
together as we fought a common enemy. I had one-hundred days with her, and where we
dreamed of a future in which she had a disease-free future. Instead of a call
in the night, or a knock on the door, I had one-hundred days to say goodbye.
In writing about Casual Lies, I give
the readers a peek behind the NBC cameras and a chance to read words never
spoken. Once again, as the pages filled with words, I found myself at that same point of metamorphosis.
Disappointment, heartbreak, and the stressful faded into the background while the
wonder and joy came to the forefront. Stanley never watched a telecast, nor did
he read a news story, people weren’t there to hurt him, they were there to
entertain. I’ll never forget those bright inquisitive eyes.
I will post my thoughts tomorrow on
the Preakness Stakes. But boy howdy, it sure does look good for the pretty
chestnut.
Take
care,
Shelley
Riley author of Casual Lies – A Triple Crown Adventure
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